Teething sometimes may be traumatic. Extra
cuddling and affection at this time can be helpful. In some cases, the doctor
may need to determine whether dental intervention may be required. The baby
with frequent and severe colic has a hard time, as do the parents. Many
pediatricians would be glad to prescribe paregoric or other suitable medicine
for relief of the colicky pain but are afraid that the parents may feel that
they are "doping" the baby. If your baby is colicky, have a good talk
with your doctor about providing relief. Weaning is an important event for the
baby. Weaning should be gradual and, if possible, at a time when the parents,
particularly the mother, can spend extra time with the child. If in doubt about
the technique, go over the details with the baby's doctor.
The baby should be introduced cautiously to
water, whether it is for bathing, hairwashing, or actual swimming. Children
vary enormously in their fears about the feel and look of water. Child begins
to explore his room and his curiosity while protecting him from danger. Wise
parents, building a secure emotional life for the child, will avoid the
constant repetition of "No, no." They will try as much as possible to
hide dangerous articles, provide reasonably safe play areas, safeguard beds,
shield electrical out- lets, put gates on stairways, etc.
To satisfy a child's natural curiosity and
desires, a play space should be provided with a "messy area" where
there will be opportunity to experiment with wet clay, sand, and paper. A
friendly puppy or kitten may prove a great asset at this stage of life. Eating
habits worry too many parents needlessly. If you stay relaxed, you will find
that the child will settle down to an adequate diet. If not, rather than become
a nagging parent; discuss diet with your doctor.
