Go on to one or more
of the following exercises, working slowly, smoothly, without jerking. Start by
doing them for just a few minutes a day; then work up to perhaps as long as
half an hour. Seated comfortably, raise your arms slowly overhead-and let them
drop suddenly. Do the same with the legs. After each drop, pause several
seconds to appreciate the relaxed effect. Breathe deeply, exhale slowly. Lie on
your back on the floor.
Close your eyes. Take a deep breath. Exhale slowly.
Tighten all muscles in your body. Then let go. Breathe deeply, exhale slowly.
Still on the floor, shrug your shoulders up to your ears-and then let them fall
back. Turn your head far to the left, then to the front, and relax. Repeat to
the right. Breathe deeply and exhale after each movement.
Lying on your abdomen, rest your head on your folded arms.
Tighten buttock muscles, then let go. Repeat several times. If you find these
exercises helpful, you may wish to consult two books written by Dr. Edmund
Jacobson: Anxiety and Tension Control," which is primarily addressed to
physicians, and You Must Relax,t primarily written for lay people. Many other
physicians today believe that the key to relaxing tension is muscle control.
With every type of nervous stress, they note, there is muscular
expression-sometimes as obvious as drumming with the fingers, sometimes as
subtle as a mere flick of the eyes. If you can develop muscular control, you
can help prevent buildup of tension. For that you will need to recognize
delicate sensations most people are unaware of, distinguishing the slightly
different feeling of a muscle performing useful work and a muscle tensed
uselessly. Then it is necessary to control the unused muscles, turning them
off.
The objective is differential relaxation in which muscles in
constructive use stay in use while others are relaxed fully. As an example of
how to go about this, close your eyes and silently repeat to yourself the names
of three states or Presidents of the United States. Though you are not
speaking, notice the small, almost imperceptible tentative movements that take
place in your tongue, lips, jaw, cheeks, and throat. Then see if you can relax
these muscles completely. o. Jacobson, Edmund, Anxiety and Tension Control.